You don’t have to have nerves of steel to score with women

In order to be successful you have to project self confidence and strength. But how can you pose as a successful man when inside your head there is this voice that keeps telling you that you're actually a loser? Strength comes from within so there is where it all starts. 

Imagine the successful completion of your objective before you approach a woman, or even head out the door. Know exactly what you want to achieve both short term and long term with women. 

The success of any encounter with a woman depends on a series of factors, but, undeniably, the most important one is the mental component. A mentally strong person is surrounded by a powerful charisma and will find the dating game a lot easier to play than an insecure person. 

You don’t have to have nerves of steel to score with women. Instead you can learn how to use your nervousness to your advantage and transform it into the fuel needed on the "battlefield". 

You should know it and believe it that it is all in your mind. You are your own worst enemy telling yourself that you can't do it, that you're not good enough or that she would never be with someone like you. Instead of sabotaging yourself try to have a more positive attitude. It will make you seem more confident and therefore more attractive. 

What happens when your heart starts pumping like crazy and your voice and hands shake every time you approach a girl? If you are interested in an upscale girl, then the local pub may not provide what you are looking for. If you work in construction all day, maybe you could dress just a bit nicer when you go out to meet women. Women love men that make them laugh.

If you have been in a bit of a slump here are some quick ways to rev up your love life:

1. Dress in a suit and take her out to a romantic dinner. 

Women love men in suits and almost every man looks good in one. The soft candle light of a romantic restaurant combined with a good wine will put her in the mood to get closer, as well.

2. Work out together.

Workouts release pheromones that heighten attraction between couples. Get sweaty together then clean up with some dirty fun in the shower.

3. Take a bath together.

Fill the tub with some scented oils or bath salts and toss in some rose petals. Play romantic music and light some candles. She will feel pampered and grateful. Let her relax for a few minutes then slip in with her. There is plenty of opportunity for sexy contact while you clean each other.

4. Roleplay can keep your relationship and sex life reved up for years.

Ex. My boyfriend will dress up like a handyman and really get into the act with accent and tools. He comes over and offers to lend a helping hand around the house. He offers a truly helping hand and I tip him extremely well.

5. Practice erotic massage.

Either take a class together or get a video or book and practice on each other. This is a great way to get both of you relaxed and heated up.